Mercurial Women
Lately, I have become much more attuned to the fact that the women in my life are a mercurial bunch, making up silvery, green, blue tidal waves, crashing, swirling, soothing, refreshing. Friends,...
View ArticleKissing & Hook-ups
In the March issue of Psychology Today, there are two pieces that I wanted to discuss here. One is a short snippet on kissing. Interestingly, a study published in Evolutionary Psychology found that far...
View ArticleTinder & Hook Ups
I recently got on Tinder. My short reaction is: it’s a weird app. It’s like “Hot or Not,” but more confusing: are people on there for hook-ups? Or dating? Or friend dating? Are the women I see actually...
View ArticleTinder Update
So I’ve been on Tinder for a couple of weeks now… and my bottom line feelings are: It’s just another mindless social media app. I think this article sums up many of my feelings well, and it was written...
View ArticleAttachment & Sex
How do you limit attachment to other people that you form intimate sexual relationships with? I think this question comes with an assumption: that one wants to limit attachment to other sexual...
View ArticleOne Night Stand
I get ready: shaved legs, shaved pussy. Sheer lipstick. Striking eye make up. Tight, short dress. Heels. Soft hair, soft skin, painted nails. Perfume. I feel like an aphrodite, a tigress, on the prowl...
View ArticleUsing Craigslist Safely
In light of this awful piece of news, I wanted to offer some advice on using Craigslist safely when looking for sexy encounters. Basic technology and online dating safety considerations also apply to...
View ArticleMore On Sexual Agreements
Okie dokie, more discussion on Amara Charles’ Sexual Agreements. Like I do, I have pulled out my favorite passages to share with you all, and bolded sections that I found particularly powerful. I enjoy...
View ArticleWomen in Crossfit
Last week I was at the gym and was completely captivated watching the women crossfit games on the TV. It was like something shifted deeply inside my gut watching buff, strong, muscle-y women lift...
View ArticleIt Was Like Maui
We had met, friends of friends, on the nude beach. You were sexy but we didn’t talk. I thought about fucking you, but thought maybe we weren’t a good match. I was wrong. I was in Maui a year ago, and...
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